Like most adults, I established and maintained my honest, compassionate and responsible values when I was a teen and young adult and they have remained the same all my life. These values are the ESSENCE OF MY CHARACTER and as I have grown and matured as responsible and compassionate adults do; I have incorporated many positive lessons to enrich my honest, compassionate and responsible character including using my education and skills to fight for Truth, Equal Rights and Justice.
MY SECRETS of how I have learned to cope and maintain my peace of mind, good values and good character while being able to diligently continue to fight this SECRET REGIME OF TERROR as a victim myself:
First, I used the resources around me in Los Angeles to help UNDERSTAND the ENTIRE situation.
• When I separated and moved to Los Angeles, I saw a therapist who specialized in parent and child divorce matters and followed her advice and regiments.
• This lead me to see a psychiatrist who prescribed to me a much needed anti-depressant so I could cope and another medication to help me sleep at night. Anyone who understands the epidemic problem of the terror of Parental Alienation and all the other crimes and terror which go along with it clearly understands the need for this medication. Plus, I am a walking example.
Both my therapist and psychiatrist told me that the therapy and medications will help me FOCUS MY MIND so I can objectively focus on the facts while having better control over my emotions. They told me that I needed to be able to CONSISTENTLY, AS A WAY OF LIFE, be able to AGAIN, even amidst all this terror, learn AGAIN to focus my mind and take care of myself, which entails regularly exercising, eating and sleeping well.
Being able to FOCUS YOUR MIND means that you are able to objectively analyze the facts and also HAVE REASONABLE EXPECTATIONS based upon facts and the habits and character of the Crooked Establishment and those aiding them in their SECRET REGIME OF TERROR.
By FOCUSING YOUR MIND, you are also much less likely to be manipulated or believe any lies and schemes the Crooked Establishment and those aiding them use to defame your beautiful character. You understand that this is THEIR CROOKED PATTERN OF BEHAVIOR and you EXPECT them to behave this way.
Over the past 9 years, all of my State and Federal lawsuits and other documents and acts clearly show this criminal and immoral PATTERN OF BEHAVIOR of my Defendants which are comprised of individuals and organizations in the Establishment and those aiding them; including many nonprofits which are all involved in promoting this SECRET REGIME OF TERROR.
• Aside from using the resources in Los Angeles in finding my therapist and psychiatrist; I also contacted many JEWISH ORGANIZATIONS to help me, a loving, law-abiding Jewish Mother, reunite with my Children.
• This is when I began to realize, to my great disgust, ALL JEWISH organizations, members and leaders in the United States are corrupt because not one of them has or will help me, a law-abiding Jewish Mother, reunite with my children for over 9 years now.
ALL JEWISH organizations, members and leaders in the United States also refuse to acknowledge the epidemic problems of using acts of Parental Alienation and employing 501(c)(3) and other Nonprofit Organizations to finance their SECRET REGIME OF TERROR.
Second, my therapist, psychiatrist, renowned authors and others stressed the necessity of REMOVING FROM MY LIFE all those people who lie, cheat, deceive, manipulate and have other immoral and criminal behaviors so that their negativity will no longer be able to “infect” me and make me sick again, tense again and unable again to focus my mind on the TRUTH.
I followed my therapist’s advice and called my many cousins in Baltimore who my children knew since we celebrated holidays and special occasions together both in Baltimore and in California.
Not one of my cousins (about 20 of them at least) would agree to do what my therapist advised. My therapist advised my cousins to have a rotating schedule and check in with my children once a week by calling them to just say “hi” or “how are you,” or “Happy Passover,” which they should have WANTED to do anyway.
However, they had the gall to call me and tell me all the things they were doing and ask me how I was doing. I told them that they KNEW that I was having a very tough time as expected due to this terror and torture of Parental Alienation. I told them that unless they decided to help me by calling my children as professionally recommended, that I did not want them to call me anymore and I want them to eliminate me from the family and all family events and I am so glad I did.
***Kind, compassionate and responsible family members do not desert an honest, loving, law-abiding Mother and her Children when they could really use their love and support. All I was asking was for an occasional phone call made at their convenience from the comfort of their home.
I also learned this lesson to ELIMINATE CORRUPT AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE FROM YOUR LIFE in 1985 when I had to sue my crooked wealthy parents, sister and their attorney who tried to implicate me in their secret tax evasion scheme so they would have more disposable income.
I was told professionally in 1985 that unless you get rid of crooked, dishonest people from your life; they will CONTINUE TO HARM YOU because they REFUSE TO LEARN NEW POSITIVE WAYS TO BEHAVE. They refuse to learn how to become honest, kind, compassionate and responsible and instead just continue to use their money and influence to manipulate and control others for criminal, immoral and greedy purposes. This is their very destructive thought process which they refuse to learn how to change.
***The irony of my life situations described above is that my crooked mother, sister and also my crooked cousins are actively involved in JEWISH ORGANIZATIONS which promote the SECRET REGIME OF TERROR using acts of Parental Alienation and employing 501(c)(3) and other Nonprofit Organizations to finance their SECRET REGIME OF TERROR. As I was advised professionally, I am so glad I got away from all of them and have kind, compassionate, responsible friends.
I continue to this day to follow this professional advice and carry out their professional regiments.
After about 5 years, yes 5 years; with the support of a very good friend; I was able to go back through my divorce file, using my legal and other skills and experience to figure out how I was denied my legal rights and denied justice like millions of other honest, compassionate and law-abiding Mothers in the United States who are also victims of Parental Alienation, the illegal and immoral use of 501(c)(3) and other Nonprofit Organizations and our Rigged Legal System.
As I fight to help millions of us Mothers and Children and others end this SECRET REGIME OF TERROR using acts of Parental Alienation and employing 501(c)(3) and other Nonprofit Organizations to finance their SECRET REGIME OF TERROR; I continue to follow the regiments of my professionals and others who are honest, reasonable and responsible which includes SURROUNDING MYSELF with others who have honest, kind, and responsible Character and consistent patterns of behavior.
Thus, MY CHILDREN and others know that I am not the one who changed.
My crooked husband MARK F. HASSMAN, after about 20 years of marriage, no longer was the man I married.
********MY CHILDREN, whom I raised with my values and who made wonderful accomplishments under my tutelage; know that they ONCE had beautiful character and values.
Whether my children CHOOSE to continue to REFUSE TO FOCUS THEIR MIND, and continue to BELIEVE the lies and schemes will determine whether they will be part of my life.
They are all adults now and have freedom to contact me unless they have BEEN TERRIBLY THREATENED by their crooked father MARK F. HASSMAN, Judges and others promoting this SECRET REGIME OF TERROR. When I last contacted them, they refused to respond and now I do not have their contact information and cannot keep using investigators to find them to have them hang up on me.
This may sound harsh, but, it is very reasonable to NOT ALLOW adults who lie, cheat, steal and have other immoral and criminal behaviors and thought processes back into your life so they can make you sick again. I have recovered so I am able to cope with my medications and regiments and I will not allow my Children or anyone else make me sick again with their lies and schemes.
Thus, these are MY SECRETS of how I cope with this SECRET REGIME OF TERROR and continue to prevail exposing the facts which will bring forth JUSTICE for many of us who are suffering from this terror.
If not I, then who? If not now; then when?
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;
www.Palienation.org
