These emails show the horrors of Parental Alienation and how evil many judges, law firms and the court-appointed therapist have been, along with my crooked, evil husband MARK HASSMAN who is trying to be “charming” when he is being very manipulative and incriminating himself again; along with his mistress MIKEL SANDERS-PERSKY a.k.a. the High Priced Call-Girl from the Dr. Phil show who used my stolen assets to pay for her breast implants and other luxuries.
Here are these emails in pertinent part which show the very sad state of affairs of Parental Alienation and the heartless professionals and others who could use their skills and education to help us end this terror and torture but instead choose to standby and illegally and immorally PROFIT FROM IT.
They refuse to change their “business policy” of profiting from Parental Alienation and the crimes which commonly go along with it.
from: Sara Hassman<sarahassman1@gmail.com>
to: jshassman <jshassman@gmail.com>,
m_hassman@cate.org,
sgh45@cornell.edu,
mhassman@aol.com,
mhassman@moote.com
date: Sat, Feb 26, 2011 at 12:18 PM
subject: Is the love of your Mother a basic need all of you have
Mark,
Do you believe OUR children only need your love and not mine? If so, why?
If not:
• Why in response to our child’s email telling me to “shut up” are you NOT expressing your disgust and your adamant request for an apology?
• Why are you not doing the same when I was called a “piece of shit” because I was going to a coffee shop with a friend?
• Why are you not doing the same when you know all of our children for the past several YEARS have hung up on me when I have tried to call them; or have refused to answer my loving emails (except those with unfounded contemptuous comments)?
• Why are you refusing to try to rectify this reprehensible behavior?
• Shouldn’t a loving, caring parent try to INSTILL GOOD VALUES in their children or should they encourage demeaning, contemptuous behavior as you certainly appear to be doing? If not, please explain because myself, my therapist, Rabbi and other professionals would love to know.
• Why are you refusing to encourage REUNIFICATION SINCE YOU KNOW IT IS IN THEIR BEST INTEREST… if you think it is not, please let me know why it IS NOT.
Have you made me out to be such a terrible person that our children no longer want to associate with me?
• What have I done that is so terrible except show many UNCONDITIONAL acts of love and care for our children.
Sara
from: Sara Hassman<sarahassman1@gmail.com>
to: sgh45@cornell.edu,
jshassman <jshassman@gmail.com>,
m_hassman@cate.org
date: Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 6:45 PM
subject: I am so upset that you were falsely lead to believe
Children,
I am so upset that you were falsely led to believe that I agreed to Dad having 100% custody. J and S you were not part of any settlement because you were both 18 but M, I am allowed to see you and call you and email you. [But he rarely accepted my communications and if he did as my therapists agreed he was acting like a puppet for his father. Thus, they advised me to stop communicating because this was making it too difficult for him and me too. Instead, I let him know, along with my other children that I am always here for them if they are kind, civil and respectful and we discuss issues in a civil manner. I refuse to get sick again from any emotional abuse which includes demeaning behavior].
I FEEL SO BADLY FOR YOU THAT YOU THINK I ABANDONED YOU OR THAT I WAS UNFIT TO BE YOUR MOTHER.
Please make wise choices and I am hopeful things will be improving soon for all of us. PLEASE ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU.
Just because people are adults or in a position of power in a job or organization does not mean they are ethical and fair.
Learn from others what to do as well as what not to do.
Please know I am always here for you and all of you will thrive like I am.
We will help each other and respect each other as we used to.
***Children, we are NOT victims. We are blessed to have learned these lessons so young in life that we have time to benefit from them and help others benefit as well. This is a blessing and NEVER view yourself as a victim. We are stronger and have more character.
Love always,
Mom
This next email is very, very incriminating especially in light of the invalid restraining orders issues against me. This email shows my husband has created and perpetuated the Parental Alienation for nine years now when he KNOWS as he said “I ACKNOWLEDGE THAT YOU WERE AN INTEGRAL PART OF THE POSITIVE UPBRINGING OF OUR THREE CHILDREN.”
from: MHASSMAN@aol.com
to: sarahassman1@gmail.com
date: Sun, Feb 27, 2011 at 11:47 PM
Sara,
I have personally been working to gain a better understanding regarding what happened to both our marriage & divorce. I have resented many of your views & opinions that have been openly expressed. We clearly have seen almost every issue with widely different positions for many years.
I am letting go of the resentment I hold against you. I ACKNOWLEDGE THAT YOU WERE AN INTEGRAL PART OF THE POSITIVE UPBRINGING OF OUR THREE CHILDREN. And I also recognize that there were many positive years during our marriage. Please don’t interpret this as an agreement with your views & opinions, because it is not. It is unfortunate that our marriage failed to hold together as we had once promised, but it is worse that our divorce also failed miserably for our family.
It is my sincere hope that you would be open to the possibility of moving towards a “successful” divorce.
[Where he stole all my assets and deprived me of custody and visitation. Is this what he meant by “a successful divorce?” Did he mean PROFITABLE for him and those aiding him like the judges, law firms, religious organizations and my other defendants as my State and Federal lawsuits show?]
This next email incriminates the “High Priced Call-Girl from the Dr. Phil show” which the money she stole from me paid for her breast implants and other luxuries and still does.
from: Mikel Persky <mikelpersky@ymail.com>
to: Sara Hassman <sarahassman1@gmail.com>
cc: Mark Hassman <MHASSMAN@aol.com>
date: Mon, Feb 21, 2011 at 12:26 PM
subject: Re: Just thought I should let you know…
Dear Sara,
AS A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN, I too believe that truth is of utmost importance.
I have all faith in God that the truth will be revealed. I am not afraid of the truth. I also believe in peace, grace, love, goodness, kindness, long suffering and mercy. All honorable traits of God, don’t you think?
I keep you, your children and Mark in my prayers during this difficult time.
[Her prayers that she can keep my assets she stole and pretend to be married and file fraudulent tax returns without getting caught and have invalid restraining orders against me so I cannot attend my children's celebrations and other events if she is there? Is this what she considers “peace, grace, love, goodness, kindness?” ]
Your statements to me that I am “Mark’s puppet” and that he “has me brainwashed too” (said to me at Parent’s Weekend at Cate) was disrespectful and demeaning toward me. AS A SUCCESSFUL BUSINESS WOMAN and survivor of many things, I am neither. Please be more respectful toward me in the future. I have been very respectful toward you, Sara.
[Really, is stealing my assets and promoting Parental Alienation and pretending to be married when I do not even have a legal divorce judgment considered “respectful?” Is this also showing she believes “that truth is of utmost importance?”]
But it gets worse for her and my other defendants. Here is her next email to me:
from: Mikel Persky <mikelpersky@ymail.com>
to: Sara Hassman <sarahassman1@gmail.com>
cc: Mark Hassman <MHASSMAN@aol.com>,
Mark Hassman <mhassman@moote.com>
date: Mon, Feb 21, 2011 at 4:52 PM
Sara,
Your comments here again show your character and level of integrity. You and your band of professionals know nothing of me or Mark that you have not planted and it appears that you may be creating your own truth here.
[Really, they have been showing a PATTERN of behavior characteristic of those who create and perpetuate Parental Alienation. If not, why hasn’t she even given me my children’s contact information and why as the mistress did she allow MARK HASSMAN her pretend husband to request a restraining order against me on June 8, 2017. EVEN JUDGE CLAUDIA SILBAR REFUSED TO ADMIT THAT SHE WAS LEGALLY HIS WIFE AS THE TRANSCRIPT REFLECTS.]
Perhaps you would you like to see MY ethical therapist and pastor? I will even take you on one of my appointments so that they can soundly view both sides respectfully. I can arrange it for you.
Mikel
Here is my response:
from: Sara Hassman<sarahassman1@gmail.com>
to: Mikel Persky <mikelpersky@ymail.com>
date: Mon, Feb 21, 2011 at 5:38 PM
subject: Re: Just thought I should let you know…
It’s not a personal attack at all.
It is a rational answer to your questions.
Why are you getting so angry when I thought we were rationally trying to resolve an issue?
I started therapy a while ago so I could better understand the divorce situation, which is complicated. I was trying to help you benefit from my experiences.
I will not argue with you, as I have said the facts speak for themselves and so do the actions of Mark, myself and our children over the past several years and beyond.
As expected, Mark will not agree to therapy which is characteristic of someone causing parental alienation. DO YOU THINK MARK’S AND OUR CHILDREN’S ACTIONS ARE UNIQUE? THEY ARE NOT. THEY FIT A PATTERN IN A SITUATION OF PARENTAL ALIENATION.
Take care.
Sara
BTW, I would go to your pastor with you and Mark. What do you want to discuss?
[This is PASTOR RICK WARREN of SADDLEBACK CHURCH who is one of my defendants for promoting Parental Alienation and using his nonprofit church to steal and launder my assets. CA Superior Court case#B267984. Birds of a feather flock together and as I was taught in law school; there is often GUILTY BY ASSOCIATION.]
Mikel never did arrange a meeting with her pastor and also never told me what she wanted to discuss. I never heard back even though myself and my children are in her prayer and she believes “truth is of utmost importance.” Her actions speak for themselves and also show her evil and criminal intent as my Federal and State lawsuits show.
I will post more emails soon to continue to give you an understanding of this horrible epidemic problem of terror and torture called Parental Alienation and how evil those are who promote it and the crimes which commonly go along with this terror and torture. I am thrilled so much of the truth is being exposed.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;
www.Palienation.org
